Things to ask Omaha when we meet:
Why did you get divorced?
Tell me about your thoughts on religion.
What makes you mad?
How are you when you're angry?
When was your last relationship and how did it go?
Describe the importance of honest.
Are you close to your siblings?
February 16, 2014
To: Mom, Dad, Sister, Grandma
Napa Valley - 41, California
He texted me to have a happy valentines day. And then said, "I wish you didn't live so far away." Oh well.
Young Brother Christian - 25, Minnesota
He called to tell me he was glad we'd had all our discussions on the meaning and nature of love. And he would be stewing on them for a long time. I hope he finds good things in life.
Omaha - 41, Denver
And now the juicy news. I’m sitting in the hotel now. Just got to Denver a bit ago. Am exhausted from several late nights of phone calls and sleeping terribly from excitement. He’s tired from his trip last week. Not sure what's gonna happen now. Maybe a nap and then it's up in the air. He couldn't believe I'd drive all the way down here and generously offered to book the hotel since I was making such a big effort to visit. I'll keep you posted!
Love you all!
February 18, 2014
To: Sister
He's afraid of "religion" and scared that I'm "religious".... I think he has classic Catholic upbringing hangups. We didn't get too much into it, because he was tired. It’s obvious he's nervous.
When we were together, I thought: he is amazing but he needs a pop to the next level. Style, thought, class, spirituality.... Which a good wife will do. And... i think i was right.
I guess it depends now on him and how brave he is. Will he have more guts than Aaron did? The world needs more amazing men. Perhaps God has brought us together at just the right moment. But it depends on us to choose. I am scared Omaha won't take the jump, but I trust God to guide me even if it doesn't work out. I think Omaha could be my great love affair.
Pray that God helps me use my "command" and "self assurance" (traits he commented on) with grace. These are big guns with easy triggers to pull!